Article #661: Eight Methods for Children Behavior :2MW/Dr. Yahya


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Eight Methods for Children Behavior:  2MW/Dr. Yahya

Hasan Yahya, Ph.ds, Palestinian Sociologist and Historian

Arab American Encyclopedia

Parents, for sure, are the most concerned of their children behavior. It is may be the   most powerful discipline tools available for them are those that promote understanding, learning, self esteam of children, and to prevent a misbehavior before occurring. Here are a few of the basic methods parents may use with children of all ages:

  1. First of all, as parent, you are considered a role model for your kids to learn from you. They really imitate your words and behavior in early age. Even the tune of your voice. Good conduct through words and acts to show respect of others and treat them in positive respective way is good to be followed by kids. I used to say to my children, after playing with their toys all over the playing room, these words: “time for cleaning up”. And children immediately act positively by collecting the toys, putting them in their boxes of places, and return the room clean.  Other good words for learning good behavior are : please, and thank you as a start.
  2. As Prent, it is recommended not to use direct orders, like. Come and eat. Or stop this! Or don’t hurt yourself. but statement, to deal with these situations you may use : Food is ready, I like you to be safe, or “you were playing the past hour with this, I like to see  you playing  with other toy?    Those who do home work get to high marks. And “Guess what? Cindrella is doing her homework.”

  3.  Allow your children to make their mistakes, they learn from their mistakes, but don’t tolerate behavior that hurts others, like hitting, swearing, or using fest.  You as parent have to learn child development stages and what behavior is typical to each stage. For example, their personal growth and  their ability, because what looks for you abnormal is in fact, normal behavior.
  4. As parent, you have to learn about  causes of child frustration, and stress. Yes, they have moments to show stress and confusion. Ask them what bather them, especially the girls, they have moments of strange actions. You have to build trust with your children to open up dialogue with them. Ask for their help, they will feel of their self-confident and ego.
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    In many cases, children ignore the rules of many things, when it comes to enjoyment of what they like. For instance, watching certain games on TV. Give them a schedule to follow, and promise to give them rewards,  include in it,   after 30 minutes, we have to play chess for one hour, then we will  have lunch. Then the reward: going to the Ice-cream shop. In case they follow the schedule.

  6. Praise is good reward. To let children excel more next time, I remember in learning spelling words, one of my children got one time less than a perfect point. Using new method of rewarding and training in different ways, by using chalks, writing the words on air, and uttering words and then spelling them loudly, he began to get a complete 100 points. Then he followed the same practice, and continued to get excellent marks.
  7. Involvement in certain activities for children is temptation to do well and learn. For example, involve them to organize their beds, dressing on their own, preparing their bags, in addition the daily routine of typical things like, doing the four things, Wash, Brush, Floss, Flush, before having breakfast. Let them measure their speed, help them to do their own tables, write it down, and analyze it. By doing that according to timer, they may become able to compare results across days or weeks, this activity helps children in doing research.
  8. And finally, as a parent, give short instructions, and give more time to listen for feedback. Encourage your children to share discussions of pictures, programs, books, etc.,. Especially on what they like and what they dislike. Educators and psychologists give this advice for you: “The most important tool to use to promote good behavior, and in the same time  prevent misbehavior is showing unconditional love and affection toward your children.(708 words) www.hasanyahya.com

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Hasan Yahya is a Palestinian Sociologist and Historian, former professor of Comparative Sociology and Educational Administration at Michigan State University and Jackson Community College. He is the Board Editing member at International Humanities Studies (IHS) Journal.  Dr. Yahya is the originator of Arab American Encyclopedia and Ihyaa al Turath al Arabi fil Mahjar-USA. His publication may be observed on Amazon and Kindle. To reach the writer: Email: askdryahya@yahoo.com

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لهواة الشعر والأدب من الدكتور حسن يحيى
عشرة آلاف بيت من عيون الشعر العربي قديما وحديثا
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Dr. Yahya Credentials:

Ph.D in Comparative Socioloy 1991, Michigan State University.

Ph.D in Educational Administration, Michigan State Univ.

M.A Psychology of Schhols Conflict Management, Michigan State Univ.

Diploma M.A, Oriental Studies, St. Joseph Univ. Beirut, Lebanon

B.A Modern and Classical Arab Literature

Life Achievements: Publishing 250 plus Books and 1000 plus articles

About Arab American Encyclopedia-USA - Hasan Yahya

HASAN YAHYA was born at a small village called Majdal-YaFa (Majdal Sadiq) in Mandate Palestine (1944). He migrated as a refugee to Mes-ha, a village east of Kufr Qasim, west of Nablus (in the West Bank), then moved with his family to Zarka, 25 km north of Amman – Jordan. He finished the high school at Zarka Secondary School, 1963. He was appointed as a teacher in the same year. Studied Law first at Damascus University, then B.A from Lebanon University in Arabic literature and Eastern Cultures (1975). He moved to Kuwait. Where he got married in 1967. He was working at Kuwait Television, taught at bilingual School, and Kuwait University. In 1982, Hasan left to the United States to continue his education at Michigan State University. He got the Master Degree in 1983, the Ph.D degree in 1988 in Education (Psychology of Administration ). In 1991, He obtained his post degree in Social research, the result was a second Ph.D degree in Comparative sociology-Social Psychology. He was the only Arab student who enrolled ever to pursue two simultaneous Ph.D programs from Michigan State University and fulfill their requirements perfectly. Professor Yahya employment history began as a supervisor of a joint project to rehabilitate Youth (inmates out of prison) by Michigan State University and Intermediate School Districts. Worked also as a Teacher Assistant and lecturer in the same university. He was offered a position at Lansing Community College as well as Jackson Community College where he was assistant professor, then associate professor, then full professor (1991-2006). He taught Sociology, psychology, education, criminology and research methods. He supervised 19 Master and Ph.D candidates on various personal, economic psychological and social development topics. Professor Yahya published Hundreds (1000 Plus on this site) of articles and research reports in local, regional, and international journals. His interest covers local, regional and global conflicts. He also authored, translated, edited and published over 280 plus books in several languages, in almost all fields especial education, sociology and psychology. These books can be found on Amazon and Kindle. He also, was a visiting professor at Eastern Michigan University to give Research Methods and Conflict Management courses. Prof. Yahya accepted an offer to join Zayed University Faculty Team in 1998, then he served as the Head of Education and Psychology Department at Ajman University of Science and Technology 2001-04. Dr. Yahya established several institutes in Diaspora, the Arab American Encyclopedia, Ihyaa al Turath al Arabi Project, (Revival of Arab Heritage in Diaspora.Recently he was nominated for honorary committee member for the Union of Arab and Muslim Writers in America. He was affiliated with sociological associations and was a member of the Association of Muslim Social Scientists (AMSS) at USA. Social Activities and Community Participation: Dr. Yahya was a national figure on Diversity and Islamic Issues in the United States, with special attention to Race Relations and Psychology of Assimilation (generations 1,2 &3). He was invited as a public speaker to many TV shows and interviews in many countries. His philosophy includes enhancing knowledge to appreciate the others, and to compromise with others in order to live peacefully with others. This philosophy was the backgrounds of his theory, called “ Theory C. of Conflict Management”. And developed later to a Science of Cultural Normalization under the title: “Crescentology. The results of such theory will lead to world peace depends on a global Knowledge, Understanding, appreciation, and Compromising (KUAC)” Recently Prof. Yahya started "Publish your book FREE Project", to serve young Arab Writers. Dr. Yahya accepted the offer to be the chief editor of the International Humanities Studies Journal -I-H-S-Jerusalem, since July 2014. (Revised Sept. 2014) ولد الدكتور حسن عبدالقادر يحيى في مجدل يابا من أعمال يافا – فلسطين عام 1944. تلقى علومه الابتدائية في مدرسة بديا الأميرية في الضفة الغربية أيام احتوائها ضمن المملكة الأدردنية الهاشمية وتخرج في جامعة بيروت حاملاً الإجازة في اللغة العربية وآدابها، ودبلوم التأهيل التربوي من كلية القديس يوسف بلبنان، ودبلوم الدراسات العليا (الماجستير) ودكتوراة في الإدارة التربوية من جامعة ولاية ميشيغان بالولايات المتحدة عام 1988، وشهادة الدكتوراه في علم الاجتماع المقارن من الجامعة نفسها عام 1991. عمل في التدريس والصحافة الأدبية. أديب وشاعر وقاص ، ,كما عمل في تلفزيون الكويت الرسمي كمعد ومنسق برامج ثم اتجه إلى الكتابة والتأليف في علوم كثيرة تخص علمي النفس والاجتماع والتنمية البشرية ، والتغير الاجتماعي والسكان وألف ونشر العديد من المقالات (1000 +) والكتب باللغتين العربية والإنجليزية (أكثر من 330 كتابا) ، منها ست مجموعات قصصية وست كتب للأطفال ، وأربع دواوين شعرية باللغتين أيضا. وعدد من كتب التراث في الشعر والأدب والأخلاق الإسلامية والتربية والأديان . وهو الآن أستاذ متقاعد في جامعة ولاية ميشيغان. . وكان عضوا سابقا في جمعية العلماء المسلمين في أمريكا . وجمعية علماء الاجتماع الأمريكية - ميشيغان، وهو مؤسس الموسوعة العربية الأمريكية في الولايات المتحدة ضمن مشروع إحياء التراث العربي في بلاد المهجرز كما تم ترشيحه مؤخرا ليكون عضو مجلس التحرير لمجلة الدراسات الإنسانية العالمية. وقد قبل أن يتسلم رئاسة تحريرها اعتبارا من نهاية يونيو 2014 His email: askdryahya@yahoo.com Thank you!
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